THE LAUNDRY CAN WAIT...
We all prefer certain conditions to create the perfect intimate scenario: privacy, plenty of time, no work-based distractions, no unresolved rows to be smarting about — the list could be endless. Some are non-negotiable, but others are less so. We all lead busy and hectic lives and, if we still want to enjoy sex in spite of that, Dr Klein asserts, we will almost always have to do so under less-than-ideal conditions — we cannot always be in Paris in the spring.
Assuming our most basic conditions are met, Dr Klein counsels, we should try to lean towards saying ‘Yes’ rather than towards ‘No, unless a long list of conditions is filled’. Establish what circumstances are non-negotiable for you — for example, if you find sex on a weekday morning too stressful as you know it makes you late for work. Everything else, such as the laundry or the long list of unanswered emails you need to reply to, you must let go of and say yes to making love instead.
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