Your boyfriend had a bad day? You can’t get along with him anymore? Is he really stressed out? Then you need to do something about this! Remember how nice it is when you’re in a crappy mood and he’s there for you, telling funny jokes or bringing you chocolate and candies. It would be nice if you’ll return the favor, it’s not that hard. Sure, you’d rather go shopping or watch TV instead of dealing with him, but if you manage to pull this off, you will improve your relationship, make him happy and even have some “fun”, if you know what I mean. Happy couples are there for each other for better and for worse, so be a good girl and help you boyfriend relax! Trust me, men are so easy to please (in comparison to women), you just need to feed and comfort him and he’s going to be alight. Some homemade goodies, a good movie and hot sex and you’re done! Here are some things you should try when you want to help your boyfriend relax:
Make his favorite food
Put on your apron and get in the kitchen, you’re going to cook his favorite meal tonight. No more low fat salads, he needs real food, a delicious steak, chicken soup, French fries, pasta, or anything he likes. After such a fabulous meal, go the extra mile and serve him some crunchy snacks (chips, spiced walnuts, popcorn, biscuits, pretzel sticks) or offer him some homemade chocolate ice-cream, he’s going to love this dessert!
Massage
Prepare yourself for some massage therapy, you’ll need towels, moisturizing lotions, body oils for men, candles and a pair of skilled hands. Offer your lover a massage that will help him relax and de-stress for the rest of the day. If he’s not that into back massages, you could try to rub his feet, he won’t say no to this.
Sports
Turn on the TV, bring him a beer and let him just enjoy watching a sports game. Sure, this one is not for everyone, not every guy on this planet likes to watch football/soccer/basketball or any other sport, there are guys out there that enjoy other hobbies. But for those who love a cold beer and a good game, it’s the perfect way to relax. Don’t ask him how his day was or anything like that, trust me, he will not be eager to talk about it. Do your thing: cook, read, sleep, do whatever you like, he won’t mind that you’re not around. He knows you care about him, he got the message.
Bubble bath or hot shower
Did you thought that only women like warm bubble baths? No, no, no, men have this guilty pleasure too! So light a candle and fill his bathtub with hot water and lots of bubbles. Invite him to relax and ask if he wants you to join him. I don’t think he’ll say no, but ask, just in case! (maybe he’s really tired and just wants to relax, you never know). Or slowly undress him and get him in the shower, this is going to be a sensual experience. (you know he’ll probably get in the mood quickly)
Laughter
Make him laugh. Watch some funny videos together on Youtube, or some funny pictures on Pinterest or Acidcow, read jokes on the Internet or just watch comedy movies. Get him laughing, it will help a lot. He’ll forget about his problems and worries and he’ll be happier.
Sex time
Put on your sexy lingerie and have a hot night of sex. Make him a favor and prepare this night just for his pleasures, offer him oral sex (he’ll be the happiest man) or surprise him with new sex positions, toys or a good porn movie.
Smile
If he’s sad and miserable, you won’t help him too much by being all grumpy and concerned about his mood. So just smile, smile at him to let him know you’re happy that he’s home.
Fun Fun Fun
Unless you’re at the beginning of your relationship, you should know what his favorite activities are. It doesn’t matter if it’s playing scrabble or video games, watching movies, going for a walk or even going out with his friends, the important thing for him is to have fun.
Help
Offer to help him with his problems, although he’s going to refuse you most likely (men like to resolve their own business), but he’ll be glad that you’re kind enough to offer. You could offer to help him with his daily chores, I’m sure he’ll be glad to take a break from taking out the trash or mowing the lawn.
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