Deepika Padukone: Love, sex and partners

In an exclusive interview the Bollywood star opens up on life in tinsel town. And why love deserves a second chance She is being talked about as the most promising fresh talent of Bollywood and giving credence to these claims are some of her biggest hits like Om Shanti Om and Housefull. Deepika Padukone has come a long way since she played Shanti opposite SRK and her role as a blind dancer in Lafangey Parindey saw her mature as an actor. The leggy lass is now all set to entertain the audience as Aaliya Khan opposite Imran in Kunal Kohli’s ‘Break Ke Baad.’

This movie about coming of age and relationships has taught Deepika a lesson or two in real life she confides. “After doing the movie, I came to know that people can actually give their love life a second try after putting in some space between each other. The concept is very new for me as I hail from a conservative family. Also I have grown up watching elders being happily married and spending their life with one person without ever wanting a break. I also learnt that a certain amount of tolerance is needed to make a relationship work,” she says.

The model-turned-actor who went through a much hyped break up with Ranbir Kapoor feels if there is no scope of a reconciliation it’s better to move on.“ I feel if a relationship has turned sour then one needs to move on in life. There is no point in sitting and crying over the spilt milk. It’s important to move on in life. We all have strength within ourselves to control our feelings and go ahead. We need to leave all the negativity that we may have experienced in our relationship and move on,” opines Deepika.

But moving on doesn’t mean severing all ties with your ex-flame, you can still be friends claims the actor. “When in relationship we feel that person is very important to us. The moments spent with him/her memorable. But when a relationship doesn’t work out you need not harbour any grudges. Instead create positivity, carry all the good things and maintain your friendship with him/her,” she quips.

Much has been written about Deepika and Ranbir some of it true and some of it mere rumours. But when asked about her ex-beau, Deepika does not restrain from commenting. “As I have said earlier too we are good friends,” avers the actor.

Having learnt from experience, Deepika also has a bit of advice for the ones coping with a break up. “Maintaining a relationship requires a lot of give and take. Sacrifices have to be made by both the couple.

Establishing a comfort level is also essential to carry forward a relationship. But if it still does not work out then we need not give up life. We need to attend to so many other things in our life time.

It’s important to keep ourselves busy by taking interest in our work.

Time is a great healer and you will gradually get over it,” she says with conviction.

And she has moved on as she is currently said to be dating business tycoon Sidharth Mallya, but once bitten twice shy, Deepika is cautious about talking of her present relationship. “I will not comment on this. A lot of media attention was given to my personal life because I was vocal about my relationship with Ranbir. Hence, I have decided to not talk about my personal life anymore,” she confirms.

But recently did she go for an eye check up with Sidharth as was quoted by many newspapers? “Smiles…I have my glasses. I don’t need to go for an eye check up now. Things were blown out of proportions by the media.” she replies.

Moving on to discussing about friends and foes in the industry, Deepika clarifies that all is well between her and Sonam. “I have no grudges against Sonam. It’s the media that’s creating such hypes. Karan’s show is not to be taken seriously. He asks tongue in cheek questions but it is all done in good humour.”

She also maintains that she doesn’t have very close friends in Bollywood. “I am so busy that I do not have much time to find a best friend in the industry. Moreover, whenever we are working we meet each other frequently, converse and then as soon as the film is over we don’t get to see each other. But while working together I have always shared a good rapport with my co-stars.” she declares.

Is it a conscious effort on her part to stay away from bonding much with the film fraternity because of the shallow relationships and double standard? Pat comes her reply, “There are no double standards in the industry. I would only say that sometimes they do not appreciate honest people. At times, honest assessments put them off. They should learn to accept things as they are and not crave for false appreciation.”And last but not the least, talking about Break Ke Baad, she says, “In this film Danish Alam has tried to bring forth the contemporary love life of today’s youth."

The countdown to usher in the New Year starts. The star hotels are advancing designing up for many sided programmes to welcome New Year 2011. They are rivaling one another to rope in picture actors and are willing to shell out some sum. It is learnt that a star hotel in Mumbai has roped in Malaika Arora Khan to participate in its New Year festivals. The DJ turned character will be paid a whopping Rs. 2.5 crore for performing an item number. She will move to the well known item number 'Munni Badnaam' from Dabangg. In the past years, Bipasha Basu and Mallika Sherawat too were offered such gigantic sums.

 

Tees Maar Khan is shaping out to be something big and promising after what we witnessed in the song ‘Sheila Ki Jawani’. Farah Khan yet again presses the right button touching the right nerves of voyeuristic males and presenting Katrina in her sauciest avatar yet.

For the item number ‘Sheila Ki Jawani’, Katrina Kaif has dropped all her inhibitions and most of her clothes as she shows loads of skin in this blistering song. Katrina has nearly half a dozen different appearances as she keeps changing her guise throughout the video.

This song was making news for quite some time and now that the video has been released the spectators are gaping and gasping staring at the belly button of the Bollywood’s Barbie Doll. Yes! Farah manages to bring the best out of the sexy Katrina who can be seen in skimpy clothes and revealing outfits in this racy song.

Though, she doesn’t tread on to vulgar lines, yet her slim trim abs and arms are a delight to watch. For a particular scene, she even drapes satin sheet and dances provocatively amidst a bunch of men in a revolving bed.

With this song, Katrina becomes the latest to join the A-list actresses who have done item numbers. Truly, Katrina has never looked more desirable and yummier.

 

Vidya Balan indicated gatherings her sensual side in Vishal Bhardwaj's Ishqiya early this year. Following getting rave inspections for that appearance, the character has marked on to order the essence and times of one of South India's most colossal sex symbols, Silk Smitha, in head Milan Luthria's next task called 'The Dirty Picture'.

Vidya newly did a racy photo shoot for a magazine for which she has received a significant number of compliments. The performing artist experienced a nervous breakdown while shooting for Sujoy Ghosh's picture Kahaani in Kolkata. So hectic is the performer that she has yet to arrange a housewarming party for her associates following acquiring a spacious level in Mumbai's Khar in February.

She is moreover miffed with head Rajkumar Gupta about having Jessica Lal's sister Sabrina stage a guest presentation in her inevitable movie No One Killed Jessica. She feels that the least the makers might have done is respect Jessica's house privacy and not straight include Sabrina in the movie.

 

A case was filed Friday in an Uttar Pradesh court against Bollywood actor Salman Khan, who is also the host of the Bigg Boss 4 show, the producer and director of the reality show and some of the contestants over its vulgar content, an official said.

The case was filed in a court in Aligarh district under multiple sections of the Indian Penal Code (IPC), including 293 (sale of obscene objects), 294 (obscene acts and songs), and 120 B (criminal conspiracy).

It was filed in the chief judicial magistrate's (CJM) court on an application filed by an Aligarh-based lawyer Anoop Kaushik. Kaushik Friday moved the complaint application against airing of the reality TV show Bigg Boss 4 on Colors channel.

"Besides Salman Khan, who hosts Bigg Boss, and five contestants of the reality show, the case has also been filed against MD of Colors channel, and the director and producer of the show," Kaushik told reporters in Aligarh, some 350 km from Lucknow.

"The five contestants against whom the case has been registered include Sara Khan, her husband Ali Merchant, Dolly Bindra, Shweta Tiwari and Sameer Soni," he added. The court has fixed Nov 24 as the next date of hearing the case.

Bigg Boss 4 has celebrity participants locked up inside an isolated house, without any link to the outside world. They are required to stay in the house under 24-hour camera surveillance.

 

This is the video of Katrina Kaif in the new item song ‘Sheila Ki Jawani’ from the movie Tees Maar Khan. The song has been choreographed by Farah Khan.

The movie stars Akshay Kumar and Katrina Kaif in lead roles and is directed by Farah Khan.