"Adventurous Sex"

When first married, having sex feels incredible. You can do it almost every day. After five or seven years of marriage, the spirit began to slacken. Intercourse was not fun anymore because it just becomes a liability. Sex will be done "as was", or "if not tired". The presence of children is increasingly becoming a reason to avoid sex.

Why "Adventurous Sex"

Luckily, sometimes you still have the desire to make sex like when they were newlyweds. You want to go back to adventurous sex with her husband, anything outside the routine sex. Whether it's new position, a new location, or a new style.Outside the spirit of the affair began to slacken, sex out of the ordinary is worth a try. In addition to making you re-excited in bed, doing adventurous sex will boost your self confidence will your sexual performance.
"Doing something different, whether successful or not when you do, will increase your confidence and will make you more likely to bring myself to get out of the comfort zone," said Trina Read, author of Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible.Many experiment will also speed up your sex drive. "When you try to get into areas that have not been explored, it gets embedded in your memory," said Read. And the more you think about sex, the more often you want it.
Well, now, how to invite adventurous sex husband do this? Proposed the use of sex aids are pretty scary. Relax, many other women feel the same."Many women who want to experiment with her partner, but do not know how to express it," says Amy Levine, certified sexuality educators in New York City.According to him, women are generally too afraid of offending their partners, or so it was considered to be worried her husband was unable to satisfy his wife, or his wife or the judge to question where you got the idea to use sex toys.
Levine suggested doing a relatively more lenient approach, for example, "I've just read about ... in a magazine or book. You are interested or not?" Another way is to write down five things erotic that you want to try, then ask him to do the same. After that, compare both your desires. If there are one or two things that was also desirable husband (or vice versa), it means you are both worth a try.